CaoKheng on Women...
Dear TomHa,
recently, I suddenly have a thought on the psychology of women which might be totally wrong or totally correct or not so wrong or correct....DUH??!! Whatever..
This is what I think.. Women are an insecure lot. They take interest in men who can give them security. Security from the security of the outside environment and also security for herself. Imagine one of the most sensitive William Hung surfaced on Earth... Would he be the most popular guy around? No! Cos he definitely cannot provide the woman with the security of by passer's criticisms and looks despite the assurance of inner security... Also, it also takes mammoth effort for him to be able to let women appreciate his inner strengths from the start! Afterall, it is perhaps more difficult to deal with those outside gazes than to endure through inner torment?
Thus, suave, loaded guys who might be bastards shall remain as the de facto popular man with girls...
Just a thought... i think not very sexist ba...
2 comments:
Woah quite long never visit here le, even the tag board is gone!! Or issit hidden somewhere? :P
Anyway, i think u could be right, about the insecurities that affected the women's choice of guys to date, but i guess this is not limited to women only ba...
Then which of the two groups of guys do you think you belong to? -mei
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